Tragedy
on the Homestead
Lake
Koshkonong (the-lake-we-live-on), Wisconsin, March 1893
I’ve visualized in my mind how this
tragedy occurred. I picture ten-year old Nancy, hovering over her mother, Cornelia,
sobbing uncontrollably. Her hazel eyes
were almost swollen shut as she cried out, “Ma Ma… Ma….” With a flask in his left hand, her father, Ira
pushed open the door of the homestead and stomped in, his unshaven beard growth
of a week beaded with little drops of melting frost. He dropped his gloves to the floor as he
rushed over to Nelia’s (Cornelia) side, leaving tracks of white slush on the
floor of the one-room shack they called home. Most of the year, he eked out a
living fishing on Lake Koshkonong, but in winter he hunted for game. The sobbing children looked fearfully at
their father, saying in unison, “Paw, do something.” Nelia Ames lay stiff and cold, breathing
noisily, with barely a rise and fall in her small chest. I imagined she had been lying on the bed in
the corner of the room, listless and sick with fever and cough for the last two
weeks after the delivery of her baby girl. My Great Grandmother, Cornelia Ames
was probably hungry, cold, and suffering from post-partum depression.[i]
It was winter in Wisconsin. All of
the garden vegetables were gone. I
pictured the one room cabin the following way. The last of the wild turkeys had
been eaten one month earlier. Only a
lonely crust of bread remained on the table with a few scattered crumbs on the
floor. Little Caroline, born six weeks before,
on January 21st, died two days earlier probably from prematurity,
lack of nourishment, and proper care. In
those days, when a child died, there were no boards to make a coffin. Relatives
dug a pit and laid logs across the top. With a crosscut saw, one man in the pit
and one on top, they ripped planks out of the logs for the coffin.[1] Because of the family life, abject poverty,
baby Caroline was laid to rest in a soap box in a shallow grave under
the snow in Otter Creek Cemetery.
“Come children, we have to get some help
here. Hiram and George, you two get some
coal and wood and get a fire goin’.” Irritated, Ira shouted, “Nancy, quit
blubbering and gather up the little ones or I’m going to send you for the
doctor. I’ve got to get some help for
your ma. Be back in a few hours or so,”
he said as he slammed the door shut, trudging out into the cold.
The Ira Ames family lived
on a piece of land near Lake Koshkonong in south-central Wisconsin. Perhaps, bringing the family to live on Lake
Koshkonong was a good idea in the beginning.
Fishing for a living would provide
support for the family. Green ash, white oak, and silver maple
groves dotted the horizon. Hog pastures,
wild turkeys, and lanes rutted out by cattle tramping through the area were
common in this part of Wisconsin. Bald
eagles and osprey nesting in the trees, ruby throated hummingbirds and white
sparrows were numerous. Squirrels,
raccoons, chipmunks, coyotes, and white tailed deer abounded. In the spring, wild strawberries and fresh
flowers dotted the landscape: lilac,
mauve, yellow and white crocus with their white central stripe along the
leaves, fragrant grayish-blue morningstars with pinkish-white eyes, and deep
purple violets covered the landscape. The
marshlands abounded with wild rice which grew seven feet high above the water, and so thick all over that it was difficult to
push a canoe through it. Mallards The
marshlands were sprinkled with wild ducks of all colors, mostly mallards.[ii]
For the family of Ira Daniel Ames,
the first part of 1893 was undoubtedly the worst year of their lives. Life was unbearable.[iii]
1893 was not a good
year. The winters on Lake Koshkonong were always severe; the year of 1893 was an
especially bad winter. The country was
in a depression. The
depression of the 1890s was on a par with the Great Depression of the 1930s in
its impact on employment. In some places it began before 1890. An agricultural crisis hit Southern
cotton-growing regions and the Great Plains in the late 1880s. Twenty-five percent of the nation's railroads
were bankrupt; in some cities, unemployment exceeded 20 or even 25 percent. People of different incomes experienced the depression in
markedly different ways. In the bitter winter months, some poor families starved
and others became wanderers. Vagrants,
out of work, crisscrossed the countryside, walking or hiding on freight trains.
Many appeared at back doors pleading for work or food. People accused those who were out of work of
laziness. Some of the unemployed blamed
themselves. The newspapers were full of
reports of despair and suicides due to these circumstances. [iv]
Ira Ames
had fought in the War Between the States in Company D, 8th United
States Infantry, and Regular Army for several years. I feel he came home a broken and disturbed
man. His regiment had lost a total of
280 men: 6 officers and 53 enlisted
men killed and mortally wounded, 2 officers, and 219 enlisted men died from disease.
[v] Ira had suffered from measles pneumonia and
subsequent pain as mentioned in his National Archives file.[vi] He probably
suffered from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder before we ever diagnosed it years
later. Ira was probably an alcoholic. One newspaper article referred to him as
“trading his wife’s garden as boot.[vii]
After returning home from the war, Ira met
and fell in love with Cornelia Palon. I envisioned him feeling that with love
he could overcome his depression. They married in Albion, Wisconsin on June 25,
1868. Work was hard to come by after the war.
The first years were particularly difficult. According to the census,
their status in life deteriorated. Ira
worked as a farmer in 1870 in Albion. [viii]
By 1880, he was listed in the census as a day laborer living in Milton,
Wisconsin. [ix]
In 1890, the Ames’ were living eight miles north at Gebo Point, on Lake
Koshkonong. During this time, I
imagine the demons came back to haunt him and he began to take up the
bottle. The family suffered greatly from their father’s drinking habits.
It was a hardscrabble existence. Things were not always been like this. I imagined
Ira had dreams, dreams of settling down, buying a farm, raising a family…. That was in the beginning.
As the children came, their situation became
more difficult. The first-born was Charles Henry in October 1870 and the last
of the twelve children was Caroline who died with Cornelia in 1893. By 1890,
the two oldest were no longer at home. Frankie, Chauncey, and Rosey Belle had
passed.[x]
The family could not survive without food and heat during
this severe winter of 1893. Without
proper care, the twelve by eighteen feet, one-room house, became a shack of
wide, rotting, gray boards running up and down with cracks in the walls
allowing the brisk, cold air in and the heat to seep through the openings. [xi]
I pictured their meager furnishings consisting
of a table sitting in the corner covered with a red cloth, two beds, the family
Bible open to Psalms on the lone dresser, and a shiny black, polished cook
stove in the center of the room. The family lived in a lonely place about 80
rods (half an acre or half a football field) away from the nearest
neighbor. Ira began to drink more and
more and worked less frequently, and cared less and less about the family. He attempted to work as a fisherman, but was
not doing well during this winter. They were isolated. There were no close
neighbors. Possibly, they were so poor and working so hard to survive that they
did not have time to socialize or Cornelia was so ashamed of their poor
existence she did not associate with the neighbors. I visualized them living a
hardscrabble life.
In March of 1893 life became so
difficult for this family that the mother, Cornelia, froze to death but likely
compounded by pneumonia, starvation, and frostbite. The doctor came and
pronounced her dead. He found six
children, starving and freezing in the “shack”.
He called the authorities. If they
hadn’t intervened these children would have been dead with their mother.
They found the children scantily clothed, one little girl having on
only a calico dress with no underclothing, and a little boy having on only knee
breeches all torn to strings. The neighbors came and took them into their
homes. The two oldest boys, ages twelve
and fourteen, were sent out to make it on their own and the four youngest were
sent to the orphanage in Sparta, Wisconsin.[xii]
Two years later, in March 1895, Ira
died.[xiii]
I conjured the following picture of him: a man in despair and depression from a
broken heart. Life had taken its toll.
Nelia was dead, the children were gone, and fishing was poor. The demons had returned and he had begun to
take up the bottle again. His spirit was
broken, battered and bruised. All he had were memories. My heart aches for my great-grandparents, Ira
Daniel Ames and Cornelia Palon. For most people, life gets better as time goes
on but for them it seems to have gotten worse. The depression came along with
the sadness and deaths. They were unable to get out of the poverty existence.
[i] ___________. “Didn’t Know Her Sister Starved Near Milton.”
Janesville Gazette, 6 May 1893.
[ii] Swart, Hannah. Koshkonong
Country - A History Of Jefferson County Wisconsin. W.D. Ward. 1975.
[iii] __________. “Mother Froze to Death,
Babes Barely Saved.” Janesville Gazette, 7 March, 1893.
[iv] Whitten, David O. https://eh.net/encyclopedia/the-depression-of-1893.
[v] National Park Service. U.S. Civil War Soldiers, 1861-1865
[database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations Inc, 2007.
Original
data: National Park Service, Civil War Soldiers and Sailors System, online <http://www.itd.nps.gov/cwss/>,
acquired 2007.
[vi] "United
States Civil War and Later Pension Index, 1861-1917," database, Family
Search (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:NHMQ-6YM : accessed 31 December
2015), Ira D. Ames, 01 Jul 1882; from "Organization Index to Pension Files
of Veterans Who Served Between 1861 and 1900," database, Fold3.com (http://www.fold3.com
: n.d.); company D, regiment 8, , NARA microfilm publication T289.
[vii] _________. “Ira Ames is a Dead Man
Indeed, Traded his wife’s garden as boot for swapping horses.” Janesville
Gazette, 9 March, 1893.
[viii] "United
States Census, 1870," database with images, Family Search
(https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:MN9W-D99 : accessed 31 December 2015),
Ira Ames, Wisconsin, United States; citing p. 4, family 30, NARA microfilm
publication M593 (Washington D.C.: National Archives and Records Administration,
n.d.); FHL microfilm 553,207.
[ix] "United States Census, 1880," database with
images, Family Search (https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:MNHX-S7L :
accessed 31 December 2015), Ira Ames, Milton, Rock, Wisconsin, United States;
citing enumeration district ED 193, sheet 328C, NARA microfilm publication T9
(Washington D.C.: National Archives and Records Administration, n.d.), roll
1444; FHL microfilm 1,255,444.
[x] Cornelia Ames Family Bible (1868-1968)
The New Testament of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ (American Bible
Association) (1875) now in possession of Nancy Fermazin Peralta, Buena Park,
California.
[xi] __________. “Mother Froze to Death,
Babes Barely Saved.” Janesville Gazette, 7 March, 1893.
[xii] __________. “Mother Froze to Death,
Babes Barely Saved.” Janesville Gazette, 7 March, 1893.
[xiii] "United
States Records of Headstones of Deceased Union Veterans, 1879-1903,"
database with images, Family Search
(https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:V6H3-CWQ : accessed 31 December 2015),
Ira D Ames, 21 Sep 1895; citing Mitton Junction, Rock, Wisconsin, NARA
microfilm publication M1845 (Washington D.C.: National Archives and Records
Administration, n.d.), roll 1; FHL microfilm 2,155,576.
